Start With Realistic Expectations

Bringing a new pet into the family can be one of the most exciting moments for a household—but it’s not always all tail wags and purring cuddles on day one. Whether you’re adopting a puppy, kitten, or adult rescue, it’s a big change. The key to a smooth transition? Managing your expectations and giving your new pet the time and tools to adapt. Remember, even the most well-behaved animals might act out or hide when thrown into a brand-new space. They’re not being “bad”—they’re just unsure of what’s going on.

Give them some grace, and remember that every animal adjusts at its own pace. Research published in Applied Animal Behaviour Science shows that it can take up to three months for shelter dogs to fully relax in a new home. So patience isn’t just helpful—it’s necessary.

Set the Stage With Structure

Your home may feel safe and familiar to you, but to a new pet, it’s uncharted territory. Set up their space before they arrive with food, water, a cozy spot to rest, and any items that might carry familiar scents if you have them. Avoid overwhelming them with new faces, loud noises, or a parade of guests the first few days.

Here are a few early must-dos:

  • Create a quiet “safe zone” just for them

  • Keep a regular feeding and potty schedule

  • Limit new stimuli like other animals or excited kids

  • Introduce crate training gradually if applicable

  • Use calm tones and slow movements

Structure builds confidence and makes your pet feel more secure. That foundation will help you avoid the common chaos that can come from too much too soon.

Don’t Forget the Resident Pets

If you already have pets at home, this transition isn’t just about the newcomer—it’s about keeping the peace across the whole pack. Animals are highly sensitive to change and territory shifts. The American Veterinary Medical Association recommends slow, supervised introductions in neutral spaces when possible. Avoid forcing interactions or letting pets “work it out” on their own. That’s a recipe for tension (and possibly a trip to the vet).

Watch for signs of stress like growling, hiding, lack of appetite, or sudden behavior changes. If things get rocky, don’t panic—most pet relationships improve with time and a little help from their humans.

When you’re ready for expert support, Ansede Animal Hospital offers Veterinary Exams and Consultations, Pet Nutrition Counseling, Pet Vaccinations, and Contact options to help you give your pet the healthiest possible start.